BDFSM raw data and informational for use


BDFSM raw data and informational for use

A collection of words of the BDFSM lifestyle for those to use to help understand the of it. And perhaps stop the social stereotypical thoughts of the common what is of it.

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Latest Activity: Apr 1, 2014

Now for a little lessen of old. BDFSM a natural progression of the life and mind set. B is for Bondage - what most start with playfully experimenting. D is for the Discipline to do or not to do. Having the control to do as told even if the one to enter into service does not want to do it. Most people today separate out the F. Through the first two, you come up with a preference, want, or need. This is commonly known as a FETISH. S & M- Sadism & Masochism two sides of the coin one who wants to give pain and one who wants to receive pain. Through the first three, they find how to achieve what they need within this last part of the lifestyle as well. It seems that many of the younger generations are not taught or do not know this idealism of the lifestyle. Most only know the modern social ideas or want the romance fantasy or only sexual versions of the BDFSM lifestyle.

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Erotic tiles to go on show at Museum of London for Valentine's Day special 1 Reply

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things. Last reply by Dept of PMM Artists & things Jan 31, 2014.

January 04, 2014-Frederick, MD: "Ye Olde Kinkissance Faire" by Moose_B_Almighty

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Jan 2, 2014.

dinner munch 4001 S. Tamiami Trail, Sarasota, FL

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Apr 10, 2013.

Sarasota Society Dungeon Play Party at the Orchard Saturday March 16, 2013‏

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Mar 6, 2013.

Sarasota Society Dungeon Play Party at the Orchard Saturday June 16, 2012‏

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Jun 9, 2012.

Sarasota Society Dungeon Play Party at the Orchard Saturday January 21 2012

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things May 2, 2012.

March Madness in Wonderland at DetroitSpace EVENT

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Feb 28, 2011.

The Kinkdom EVENT

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Feb 25, 2011.

++Downriver Club Presents++Mortal Kombat by Sir Travis++ EVENT

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Feb 24, 2011.


Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Feb 24, 2011.

Deviations (Wicked) Detroit March 19th EVENT

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Feb 24, 2011.

NYC: this Fri, Feb 25 The Harder the Better Play party EVENT

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Feb 22, 2011.

Sunday, February 27th-Michigan Whip Throwers Event

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Feb 21, 2011.

Update of Poly events - Victoria EVENT

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Feb 21, 2011.


Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Feb 20, 2011.

Breakfast Club Munch and Billiards After Breakfast

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Feb 20, 2011.

This Week at TES - Sissy Maids and Puppy Play EVENT

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Feb 20, 2011.

Sinsations in Leather Registration is NOW OPEN !!! EVENT

Started by Dept of PMM Artists & things Feb 18, 2011.

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Comment by Dept of PMM Artists & things on January 21, 2011 at 1:26pm

The Downriver Club Presents ++Mummification Class++ Presented by Fetvest

“Wrap or be wrapped!”

General info

date: Sunday, January 23, 2011
time: 04:00 PM to 10:00 PM
where: Location to be sent out with invitation
cost: $10.00
dress code: vanilla on the street/as you wish when you enter


Bio: He’s Fetvest on line, Bill to his friends, Sir Bill to some and teacher to others. As a Dominant Switch, he has been an enthusiastic member of several Metro Detroit BDSM/Fetish Alternative Lifestyle groups. He is the host of the Oakland County Munch and can often be found helping out as a DM at local parties. Bill is also known to pervert all sorts of things into unique toys and play furniture. He is a Fetish Fashion enthusiast and sensualist, always welcoming the opportunity to exchange ideas with others.

Class Description: As a follow up to "Plastic Wrap - The Science & the Sensual" - Join Bill for his Skill Share presentation "MORE Plastic Wrap!" If you've ever wondered what it would be like to be wrapped, restrained or mummified, this is your opportunity. With less talkin' and more wrappin', Bill will briefly cover safety concerns, purpose and methods and then open the floor to questions and interactive participation. He will bring one of his favorite pieces of equipment which will accommodate several different types of wrap scenes including the "Jello Shot". He says that he's also been working on something new that should be ready for this presentation. Can't wait! Feel free to bring some plastic wrap with you but there will be plenty on hand with a huge selection of colors available for play.

Class is 4:00pm to 7:00pm please be there early! Doors will close at 4:00pm and you will have to call for entry after that time.

Comment by Dept of PMM Artists & things on January 21, 2011 at 12:19pm

Beautiful Week-End At Paddles on Jan. 21st & 22nd...

Fri. Jan. 21st- DSFs Meeting and Demo. Doors open at 7:30pm to 9:30. Paddles All Out BDSM Play Party- 9:30 to 3am Come Join the fun and be "PART OF THE PADDLES HISTORY".

Sat. Night Play Party 10pm to 3am.

This is the 1st of many "ROLL BACK THE PRICES" Sat. Party.- Tell our Little DLB at the door that she is Beautiful and Men Get in for $25-Women $5...

Tell your friends On-Line and Join The Fun. 250 w 26st NYC Between 7th & 8th ave. Parking Lot Side Door.

Paddles "The Longest Running BDSM Club in the World"...

Comment by Dept of PMM Artists & things on January 21, 2011 at 12:19pm

January 2011 Game & Gab

“Polyamory, Boardgames, and bland Midwest food. Good times!”

General info

date: Saturday, January 29, 2011
time: 11:00 AM to 03:00 PM
where: Denny's Plymouth
address: 39550 Ann Arbor Rd., Plymouth, MI, 48170  map
cost: Buy something off the menu
dress code: Street clothes


What: Game & Gab, social game party for the Polyamory community and friends

Where: Denny's restaurant, 39550 Ann Arbor Rd., Plymouth, MI, 48170

When: January 29th, 11am to 3pm

Why: It can be nice playing games and eating with people who share an interest with you.

How: Bring a game you'd like to play, of the board/card/table variety. Be friendly. Order something (or split my fries!). Be excellent to each other!

Comment by Dept of PMM Artists & things on January 21, 2011 at 12:14pm

Munch -N- Bowl

“Bowling Munch”

General info

date: Monday, February 21, 2011
time: 07:00 PM to 11:00 PM
where: Fairlanes Bowl
address: 29600 Stephenson Hwy., Madison Heights, MI 48071  map
cost: $9.00 per person (shoes included).
dress code: vanilla


Come join us, get active and meet your fellow kinksters or hang out with your kinky friends at a once monthly bowling munch. No commitments necessary, simply drop in when you want or come every month. Whether you're an experienced bowler or just learning, it should be a great time. This munch will take place on the third Monday of each month. Please show up a little early so we can get everyone settled in to bowl at 7:00pm.

Look for the three black balloons at the end of the alley.

Comment by Dept of PMM Artists & things on January 18, 2011 at 11:26am

Oakland County Munch -

date: Friday, January 21, 2011
time: 07:00 PM to 10:00 PM
where: Liberty Bar
address: 85 N. Saginaw  map
cost: $0 - whatever you want to eat or drink
dress code: public / casual with spice


So - here we go slippin' and slidin' into 2011. Lets keep the love flowing this Friday, the 21st. All the info is here - mark it on your calendar. If you're thinking of coming to your first munch, this would be a great time. We are (usually) right inside the front door; just ask for Bill. You can order a delicious dinner from Jose' or just have a drink. Most important is that you come on out and join the conversations. This munch repeats every third Friday of the month. YES - I will have chocolate!

Comment by Dept of PMM Artists & things on January 17, 2011 at 4:56pm

Feb. 5th Beat the winter blues at the Reformatory

This is going to be a special party. Grab your friends, newbies and veterans to the lifestyle alike. Come warm up here at the Reformatory for a long night of kinky fun. Lets beat the winter blues with some hot spankings, some fire play, get the warm blood flowing from cuttings and piercings, and steamy encounters.

This event is 100% potluck. We are going to analyze our menu by what people bring. We will put out the fixings for tacos. The cover for the party is 40 a cpl, 40 a single male, new single females please donate something if you wish. No memberships will be required or collected. Come on out and see the new improvements to the Reformatory, bring your towels for the hot tub, and have a great night. New guests are still required to call us at 1 734 934 8760.

This is always a byob event. We sell no alcohol, but you must be over 21 to consume. All soft drinks are provided free of charge.

Party starts at 8pm and ends on noon on Sunday. Please arrive by 10 and call in advance for overnight accommodations. To sign up, hit the link, []

Comment by Dept of PMM Artists & things on January 17, 2011 at 4:53pm

GRALE - My Bloody Valentine event!!!

PLEASE NOTE: RSVPing on the GRALE website.

Presented by BuckyKatt

Roses are red
The thorns feel good
Drag them down my back
Cover me with blood

For this bloody Valentine’s Day, come see Bucky as he teaches us about needle play. Learn all kinds of fun tricks with needles, from mild to wild, basics to extreme, as he shows us how to have lots of bloody fun with these sharp and pointy play toys. He will teach you about the necessary supplies, how to properly set-up a scene, and how to prep and play with your ‘pin cushion’. This class is guaranteed to be filled with bloody fun. What better way to spend Valentine’s Day weekend than learning how to make the ones you love bleed.

Bucky is a deviant switch from the Chicago area. Although he’s been living the fetish life for decades, he only “officially” became part of the lifestyle within the past five years. Finding that traditional methods do not always fit within his scenes, he developed his own style for all kinds of play, preferring to follow the flow of energy with his partner and within the scene rather than doing what “The Book” says.

Bucky has a degree in communications and has been presenting professionally for over a decade. His experience ensures that the audience will be entertained, stay engaged, and will walk away with an abundance of new and useful information. Enjoying the quest for knowledge and always concerned for safety in play, Bucky loves teaching his skills and sharing his ideas with others.

The event will start at 6pm with a potluck dinner (bring a dish to pass!), followed by the demo and play party.

Make sure to get your RSVP in today (21+ only: ID's are checked at the door) – Cost is $5 for members and $15 for non members. You MUST be paid before the event: No money will be taken at the door.

Become a member and save!!! A one year membership for GRALE is available for only $25!!!

This event will take place on February 12, 2011 in Grand Rapids, Michigan – No additional location information can be given until registration has been completed. Because it is in a semi-public area, vanilla clothing must be worn until you are inside the building.

Please feel free to post in the GRALE Fetlife Group or visit the GRALE Website if you have any questions – We will make sure we get the information and get back to you as soon as possible!

Comment by Dept of PMM Artists & things on January 17, 2011 at 4:27pm

Our Next Free KINKDOM PARTY is January 29th...

The basement is all ready to go, some new play stations have been added, It's cozy like a dungeon. Now we have the first level and full basement for play; doubling the space we had before. We think folks are gonna like it and, we are eager to share.

After the holidays everyone tends to be short on cash. Great timing for a free party. For those 21 and older feel free to bring adult beverages if you wish. We'll have a very nice spread of food and munchies.

An event link is at the bottom of this page, as before please RSVP individually, so we can do our best to ensure their is plenty of food & accommodations for all.

Hours will be from 7pm-4am (possibly later) and there will be ample parking, along with parking security from open to close. For any women who might be arriving or leaving alone parking security will be watching out for you. If you ask them you can be walked to and from the door if it makes you feel more comfortable. Our building is on the edge of Mexican Town and is not only very safe but, pretty quiet too.

Detroit has a stigma so, even though we likely don't require any security we'll still be providing it, so long as it makes people feel better.


Event page at the link below:

Comment by Dept of PMM Artists & things on January 17, 2011 at 4:26pm

Night At The Castle IV July 16th, 2011 Bloomington Indiana

It's that time again!!!!!

Lords, Ladies, servants and scribes!

Night at the Castle IV is open for registration

July 16, 2011 Bloomington, Indiana

Must be 21 to attend

VendorsDemonstrationsFull Buffet20+ play stationsSilent AuctionDoor Prizesmuch much more!

Cost: Early Registration(until April 1, 2011) $15
Standard Registration(April 2-June 15) $25
Late Registration (June 16-July1) $35

Scholarships are available

For More Information, Email
To Register:

Comment by Dept of PMM Artists & things on January 17, 2011 at 4:22pm

Gor is NOT BDSM, nor is BDSM Gor. no matter how you want to put a spin on it


A subbie enjoys the whip, as does the Dom who uses it on him or her. This is a SEXUAL enjoyment. A slave does NOT enjoy the whip, because it is not used to be pleasurable, it is used to train. As someone who IS a Master, and who IS a Gorean, I can tell you that I find nothing more distasteful than a slave who has gotten to the point of whip training. Infact, despite your posted thoughts, I don't even OWN a whip, or goad, or even a flogger. Infact, at this juncture in life, I don't even own a slave. And even when I did, I still didn't own the "toys" that some feel they require to dominate a slave. A Master, or even Mistress, doesn't really need those toys unless they enjoy playing with them. In the concept of "whip training", I find that I have lacked in properly training her to the point that the whip is necessary. This is the standard of using the whip, or slave goad, or other basically torture devices found within the book. Ever notice there isn't some slave setting there going "ohhhhh Master.. please, whip me again you big stud!" or references to her extreme enjoyment at having layers of flesh flayed away? No.. and you even so stated that point yourself. Thus, by it's very definition of Sadomasochist/ism, BDSM and Gor cannot be the same thing.

BDSM - Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism. When will the BDSM crowd stop trying to lump Domination/Submission in there? It has been Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism for more than 4 DECADES, so in the last few years the over-zealous pompous fetish types don't get to start arbitrarily changing the rules on what BDSM really stands for. Now, I will grant you, to some extent, Domination and Submission DO come into play in BDSM.. into PLAY. However, for one to be Gorean, either Free or slave (unowned of course), there is no need for Domination or submission to actually BE a Gorean. By accounts of the texts, on Gor approximately 4% of the TOTAL population where slaves, in one form or the other. This being said, your summation of having to maintain ownership, or be owned, to be Gorean, would remove 96% of the entire population from your definition. I think you may want to rethink that one just a bit.. but I'll leave you with that to chew on...


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Patchwork Merchant Mercenaries had its humble beginnings as an idea of a few artisans and craftsmen who enjoy performing with live steel fighting. As well as a patchwork quilt tent canvas. Most had prior military experience hence the name.


Patchwork Merchant Mercenaries.


Vendertainers that brought many things to a show and are know for helping out where ever they can.

As well as being a place where the older hand made items could be found made by them and enjoyed by all.

We expanded over the years to become well known at what we do. Now we represent over 100 artisans and craftsman that are well known in their venues and some just starting out. Some of their works have been premiered in TV, stage and movies on a regular basis.

Specializing in Medieval, Goth , Stage Film, BDFSM and Practitioner.

Patchwork Merchant Mercenaries a Dept of, Ask For IT was started by artists and former military veterans, and sword fighters, representing over 100 artisans, one who made his living traveling from fair to festival vending medieval wares. The majority of his customers are re-enactors, SCAdians and the like, looking to build their kit with period clothing, feast gear, adornments, etc.

Likewise, it is typical for these history-lovers to peruse the tent (aka mobile store front) and, upon finding something that pleases the eye, ask "Is this period?"

A deceitful query!! This is not a yes or no question. One must have a damn good understanding of European history (at least) from the fall of Rome to the mid-1600's to properly answer. Taking into account, also, the culture in which the querent is dressed is vitally important. You see, though it may be well within medieval period, it would be strange to see a Viking wearing a Caftan...or is it?

After a festival's time of answering weighty questions such as these, I'd sleep like a log! Only a mad man could possibly remember the place and time for each piece of kitchen ware, weaponry, cloth, and chain within a span of 1,000 years!! Surely there must be an easier way, a place where he could post all this knowledge...

Traveling Within The World is meant to be such a place. A place for all of these artists to keep in touch and directly interact with their fellow geeks and re-enactment hobbyists, their clientele.

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