Sometimes the gift is something we have to give up. Think about that and see how a smoker could be well rewarded with that gift. I never said it would be an easy thing to do. Then there's gifts to loyal companions. A necklace for the Lady. tools for a Lord,even armor for both.
Now do that with no reward expected or infered.
A gift of uniting for the simple joy of the partnership. The best Gifts are always to oneself, Knowledge, Enlightenment, Peace. A timely warning can be a gift.And even rewards for those who just follow the Universe doing their level best to stay out of their own way. So in closing; Sometimes you even have to let the universe have, the first move.