"BDFSM" is an acronym of "B&D" (Bondage & Discipline),F (Fetish) "D&S" (Dominance & Submission),"s&M" (slave/submissive~Master Mistress) and "S&M" (sadomasochism). "BDFSM" refers to any or all of these things, and a lot of stuff besides.

Tying up your lover is BDFSM; so is flogging that person, or bossing that person around, or any of a thousand other things. BDFSM is highly erotic, not always involves sex ( though most think so)or sexual tension; and is highly psychologically charged. One person (the "submissive") agrees to submit to another person (the "dominant"); or, alternately, one person agrees to receive some sort of sensation, such as spanking, from another.

Some people like to be submissive all the time, some people like to be dominant all the time; some people like to switch, being submissive one day and dominant the next.

Many people practice some element of BDFSM in their sexual lives without even being aware of it. They may think of "S&M" as "That sick stuff that people do with whips and cattle prods and stuff," yet still blindfold one another from time to time, or tie one another down and break out the whipped cream...

All of these things are "BDFSM." BDFSM is not necessarily hardcore sadomasochism; it can be remarkably subtle and sensual and soft. Pinning your partner to the bed and running silk or ice cubes or rabbit fur over your lover's body qualifies as "BDFSM" (specifically, of a variety called "sensation play").

 

Here are our 2011 Dates as they stand now.

Date Theme

2/12/2011 Kinky Valentine's Party

3/12/2011

4/9/2011

5/14/2011

5/28/2011 Poss. Outdoor/Kinky Toy Sale

6/11/2011

7/9/2011 July Sparks

8/13/2011

9/10/2011 Breast Cancer Fundraiser/Kinky Garage Sale

10/29/2011 AllHallo’s Kink Party

11/12/2011 SpanksGiving Party

12/31/2011 NYE!! Party!!!

Title:
 
Sarasota Society Play Party
 

Date:
 
Saturday January 15, 2011
Time:
 
9:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Repeats:
 
This event repeats every month on the third Saturday.

Location:

 
Near Sarasota and Manatee County

Notes:
 
You cannot attend the party without an RSVP to sarasotasociety@yahoo.com

THIS Week at OhioSMART

Tuesday - 11th - SMART Energy - KnifePlay Workshop. For more info write to: energy@ohiosmart.org

Thurday - 13th - NEO M/s Chat (Not a SMART group but run by SMART Members)
http://fetlife.com/events/36862

 

Educational Event and Play Party, Featuring the Goddess Lakshimi, SMART Beginnings: Negotiations by Cavebabe and a hot dungeon party for these cold winter nights!! http://fetlife.com/events/35396

For more information: Please email: info@ohiosmart.org or check out the SMART Website: http://ohiosmart.org

 

 

in Pennsic Kinky.

Hello everyone! Here is the link for the Fetlife head count for Pennsic War XL. They are split up into two weeks because Fetlife doesn't acknowledge events lasting more than one week long. If you are going to be available for both weeks and want your face counted, attend both events, and if you are only able to go for one week alone, choose the week that best suits your plans.

See you at War!!

Pennsic War XL Week 1
Pennsic War XL Week 2

Port Huron Jan Munch

January Munch at the Raven coffee house in downtown Port Huron is going to be held on the 13th from 7:30 p.m. till 10:00 or till we feel like leaving. They offer a menu of sandwiches, snacks and soups along with over 100 different coffee selections. Feel free to contact me for directions or interest in going. We met upstairs on the leather couches. Casual dress please.

Demonstrations for Fetish Party

http://fetlife.com/groups/7421/group_posts/1115559?utm_campaign=not...

by punkangel

I am helping organize a fetish party at the Chrome Cat, a night club in Lansing on Saturday, March 12. We're advertising it as an invite only party, and there will be a very diverse crowd, some vanilla folks, and there will be some more experienced in attendance. Hopefully you will be there too! :-)

I would first like to extend the invitation to any FL folks who would like to join us for a night of performance art, demonstrations, and dancing. I guess it would be something in between a munch and an official play party. Because of the variety in the crowd, and that it's being held in a bar, we will not have much space available for play, as well as the alcohol factor being present, although we will be bringing in some equipment, such as a St. Andrew's Cross. There will be a few performances. So far we have a flogging demo lined up, a horse & pony number, a furry drag number, and a few other acts that are still in the works.

I am seeking anyone who might be interested in taking part in our fetish night. In particular, a boot black would be amazing. I think some rope bondage would be a delicious addition as well, or some fire play! I would love to find a play piercer, although I'm not sure if that would be too much for the crowd... If you have any fun talents you'd like to show off, message me and we can see if I can fit it into the evening. Or, if you have any questions about the event, let me know.

Downriver Club Munch-Thursday, January 20th

The public munch is from 7:30PM to 9:30PM at The Broadcast Booth in Allen Park, located at 6550 Allen Road.

RSVP

This a beautiful location on Southfield in the jewel of Downriver. There is street parking out front or lots of additional parking around back with lighting everywhere.

There is a $10.00 per person cover charge that includes food, soda, coffee, and tea. You don't need to buy any drinks or food! For those interested, they also have a full bar (not included) and even professional pool tables at $8 an hour.

This is a nice, clean, upscale, and safe location to meet everyone at. There are even couches in the bar area and TVs everywhere. This is a fairly new establishment that has been in Allen Park now for 2 years.

This event repeats every month on the third Thursday.

[RSVP](http://fetlife.com/events/39633

TIED social

by SensualKnotz about 5 hours ago

The TIED social will be held on Jan 22nd. Time and location TBA upon RSVP. All those planning on attending must RSVP by midnight Thursday the 20th. There will be a room set aside for the Littles to enjoy fun and games. Any Littles planning on attending should bring their own toys: coloring books, glowsticks, stuffed animals, and such.

Knotz
TIED Secretary

http://fetlife.com/groups/1719/group_posts/1115130?utm_campaign=not...