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Sarasota Society Dungeon Play Party at the Orchard Saturday March 16, 2013‏

Sarasota Society Dungeon Play Party at the Orchard
We would like to announce that we are taking RSVPs for the Sarasota Society Party.

The RSVP list tends to fill up quickly so we suggest that if you are planning on
attending to please not wait until the last minute.

YOU MUST BE ON THE PARTY LIST IN ORDER TO BE ADMITTED

Party date will be Saturday March 16, 2013.
Party starts after 9PM

PLEASE READ ALL THE FOLLOWING INFORMATION CAREFULLY!!!
You MUST RSVP in order to be placed on the party list and receive directions and
further information regarding this event. This is the only way you will be allowed to attend. The party is held in a private residence, and if you are not on the party list you will not get directions, or be admitted to the party even if you have been to our parties in the past.

YOU MUST RSVP TO SARASOTASOCIETY@YAHOO.COM EVEN IF YOU IF YOU RSVP ON FETLIFE
to make certain that your name is not missed.

Please have your RSVP's in by Thursday March 14, 2013 if you want to attend.
If you have RSVP'd and your plans change, please let us know so that someone else may take your place.

Directions to the party go out on the Thursday before the party

Please let us know if you haven't received directions by Saturday morning. We will also send out directions early if needed for those who may not have computer access.

RSVP to SarasotaSociety@yahoo.com
SINGLES ARE WELCOME and encouraged to attend!! This is a completely safe, sane and consensual party. No ALWAYS means No. It is a cozy and very friendly atmosphere where you can feel comfortable simply observing.

There will be other single people there to talk to as well.
There will be absolutely no pressure and you can progress at your own speed or, simply be an observer.
Single females can feel safe coming to the party alone. There will be many submissive females that will be there to talk to.
I am very serious about making sure that you are comfortable and safe.
Single males are also welcome and encouraged to attend.

WHAT TO EXPECT: This is a relaxed atmosphere in a low protocol setting.
Manners are appreciated and expected. We have many group members that will be
delighted to answer questions and help make you feel comfortable without any pressure.
No ALWAYS means No!! I am the party host and if there are ANY
questions or concerns, you can feel free to come to me at any time.

WHAT TO WEAR: This is a semi formal event. Please dress accordingly. Women may wear corsets, fetish, latex, lingerie, sexy dresses or nothing at all!
For the men: Leather or latex is a plus, but jeans are ok.
No admittance to anyone wearing cutoffs,flipflops or anything that looks like beachwear!!

If you have any concerns about what to wear, please write me and I will try to
help.

FOOD: Soft drinks will be supplied. Everyone is asked to bring a covered dish to share. A few ideas would be: fruit, veggie tray, cheese, home baked cookies or cake, which is more likely to be devoured than a bag of chips (and a lot healthier)

ETIQUETTE: NO MEANS NO! We are VERY serious about that! Do not touch other people's property without permission - which means toys, whips, and slaves!

Once again - If you see something you don't understand or have concerns with -
DO NOT approach anyone who may be playing
DO NOT INTERRUPT A SCENE EVEN IF YOU THINK YOU ARE HELPING!

Do not have loud discussions while other people are scening.

Be prepared to see things that you may have not seen before.

Please leave enough room for tops to swing a whip. Please don't interrupt scenes or talk to those while they are scening. Equipment is limited! Please do not tie up play equipment for long periods of time and please clean the equipment after you use it.

Please bring a towel if you are going to have a bare bottom and use it when seating on the furniture

Rigger