Seductive Dancing... by Marjabella La Fey

[Dept of PMM Artists & things]

So you want to shake up your man’s mojo with some sexy exotic dance moves that will have him day dreaming about your dangerous curves of pleasure.  Good, then you are so in the right place to learn the best way to turn your moves from nice to naughty !!!!!!

First things first, right up there with confidence in your ability to provoke your man to squirm in his seat with exotic dance moves that strokes his male parts is the realization that there are many different types of exotic dance.

To unleash the exotic dance diva deep in your soul, consider these fabulous favorites:

• Strip Tease: A striptease is the most time honored and easiest of the exotic dances.  After all, you are only removing your clothes to a beat right?  Wrong!  Take some time to plan the right time and place.  Add some spice with props and check your wardrobe.  The most common mistake that most women make is wearing lingerie that is overly complicated and hard to remove once in the candle light.  Practice a few times to make sure that the seduction is smooth so you feel sexy.  And, when you have his attention, don’t get nervous and move to fast.  It is not a race.  Enjoy teasing and tempting him with your sensual efforts.
• Pole Dancing: Pole dancing adds the unique element of balance to the art of exotic dance.  Some practice will teach you that sweaty skin sticks to the pole and prevent a smooth slide.  Also, by practicing with a pole, you will learn what shoes and costume works best for your exotic dance moves.  Take the extra step of renting a video to show you the best pole dancing moves or take a class with an exotic dancer.  The small investment will boost your confidence and give you some great hints to help you enjoy your pole as much as he does.
• Lap Dancing: For most men, lap dances are a guilty pleasure.  The secret to giving a great lap dance is simply rolling of your butt against his lap.  Much like masturbation with your ass, slowly stroking his male parts with long, grinding motions will bring sparks to his crotch.

Strip Tease

 

Here are some hints to make the most of your strip tease lessons:

Start off Slow:  The art of strip tease often requires controlled movements of muscles in combination with the music that might not feel natural in the beginning.  Start slow and allow your body to get accustomed to the feel of moving in unison to create a sensual effect.

Lighten Up:  Most women are hard wired to feel self-conscious about their body.  The quicker you learn to give your body (and you!) a break and lighten up to the moves of strip tease, the faster you will get a feel for it. 

Fake It Until You Make It:   Accept from the beginning of your strip tease class that your body, moves, and state of mind are not the same as the instructors or anyone else in your strip tease class.  Some people have a natural rhythm and will learn the strip tease moves very quickly while other struggle to simply hold on to the pole.  Don’t look around and compare yourself to others.  Appreciate yourself for making the attempt to learn strip tease.

Practice on the Sly:  The best way to build self-confidence about your strip tease moves is to practice in private.  Put on some sexy music and practice your strip tease moves in the mirror.  When you are able to see how your body moves, you will find ways to correct your strip tease and be surprised at how sexy you look when moving to the beat.  This will also give you confidence when you try it in front of a man.

Own It:  Although you might be a far cry from the level of a professional stripper with a few strip tease lessons, give yourself credit and do the moves that feel right for you.  Adjust the moves that you learned in your strip tease class to enhance and communicate the way you are feeling to your partner.

Although the movement and goal to learn strip tease moves might seem a little intimate at first, enjoy the music and give yourself over to sensuality of strip tease adds spicy pleasure to your relationships.  For most men, seeing a woman confident enough to try a strip tease is a huge turn on.  Don’t worry about whether you are doing the moves right or not.  In the end, the tease of watching you undress just for his pleasure will have your man home early every night.

 

Lap Dance

 

If you are ready to learn to lap dance to set your man on fire and give yourself that “Master your Man” glow, then you have come to the right place because we know all of the juicy details about the learning the booty roll!

Men are never too old to appreciate a woman who has a strong sense of sexuality and guts to shake her booty.  But, making a commitment to learn to lap dance can skyrocket you into dance floor diva and start his mind bubbling with ways you can add extra sizzle to sex.

Yes, most men do not hide the fact that a woman who can control the junk in her truck is more sexually exciting.  Even more than that, you will gain an added dose of confidence when his eyes stroke the curves of your bottom like tight jeans with anticipation of teasing him with some solo bump and grind.  With some confidence and by finding your type of woman, you can pick the most comfortable way to learn to lap dance from these sensual options:

• Slow and Steady: Many women find that reading about the night moves of how to learn to lap dance is the best way to bring extra sexy to their game.  Though there are a few books on the market about how to lap dance, the best ones follow the simple idea that a picture is worth a thousand words.  At first, it might be difficult to read and then translate the moves into your own actions, but with some work you will learn to lap dance.
• Play It Again: If you are somewhat shy about getting your groove on in front of another person, then learning to lap dance will add excitement to your sex life as well as give you the confidence of control.   With some great audios and videos on the market, the combination of both is the best methods because you learn to lap dance with a visual aid and the reinforcement of a verbal instruction.Plus, you have the extra benefit of giving yourself all of the time you need to go from dysfunctional to diva that rocks his world because you can review the materials unlimited times without extra cost. 
• Bring on the Bump and Grind: Some women find themselves inept in the ways of lap dance without the hands on guidance of a professional instructor.  Don’t be shy.  Get some girlfriends together for a strip-a-thon or fly solo on your sensual soaring of self discovery!  Either way, get a teacher and get started.

The key to successfully learning to lap dance is to practice, practice, practice…and remember, this is one place where you man will appreciate your on the job training.  After all, that is why you want to learn to lap dance right…to Master Your Man!

 

Have fun be creative.-release the inner sexy siren heeee.xo