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Eyes Of Seduction.. by Marjabella La Fey
Hands down, the eyes have it - they begin it, they make it happen and they finish it.
Eye contact is an important part of the mating ritual. But there is more to eye contact and sexual attraction than dilating pupils, how many times you exchange glances and how long you can keep eye contact. Many Dating Coaches and Seduction "Experts" hardly ever even mention it. You are simply told "don't make a good eye contact and all is lost" and for the last thousand times you've tried to make "good" eye contact, caught a few eyes and held some of them in mutual gazing but that's just it - eye contact. No sparks and no "It's you I want."
Well, honey, I hate to be the one to be the bearer of bad news, but merely pointing hauntingly vacant and dull eyes towards a man or woman thinking that if you gaze hard enough and long enough, something will happen is a waste of a lot of time.
The eyes are the most powerful single carrier of sexual energy. When eyes meet, two sexual energies come into contact. Whether sparks fly or not depends on the amount of sexual energy each one is generating at that particular moment in time.
When a man or woman looks into your eyes and he or she sees nothing in there, it doesn't matter how long you focus your eyes into theirs. If they initially liked your general physical appearance, they may return eye contact just to see if they can read more from your eyes and if they still find nothing there, they just look elsewhere and avoid further eye contact. There is still chance that you will be attracted to each other but for very different reasons - and not happy ones either.
But when a man or woman looks into your eyes and your sexual energy is coming at them hard and strong, sparks fly. The mistake a lot of men and women make - mostly because they are unaware of how sexual energy works - is to think: "Oh! We made eye contact, now we're an item!" Mistake! Big Mistake!
Without working to fan the flame, that little spark can easily be put out instantly. The secret is to fan that spark into a fiercely burning fire using the eyes to speak on your behalf.
The eyes have a body language all on their own. They have a very subtle form of speaking that is hard to define, but you know it when you see eyes that "speak": they narrow, deepen, greet, adore, invite, suggest, implore, insist, caress, propose and promise. They also glow with knowledge, twinkle mischievously and play with sexual desire. All without you even opening your mouth and without a single word exchanged between the two of you.
Nothing will improve your dating prospects more than fluency in eye language. I encourage you to go out there and let your eyes do the speaking! It'll take sometime getting used to it but eventually you will feel yourself starting to really "connect" with others at a very deep level.
Author: Christine Akiteng is an internationally renowned Sexual Confidence/Dating Coach
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Patchwork Merchant Mercenaries had its humble beginnings as an idea of a few artisans and craftsmen who enjoy performing with live steel fighting. As well as a patchwork quilt tent canvas. Most had prior military experience hence the name.
Patchwork Merchant Mercenaries.
Vendertainers that brought many things to a show and are know for helping out where ever they can.
As well as being a place where the older hand made items could be found made by them and enjoyed by all.
We expanded over the years to become well known at what we do. Now we represent over 100 artisans and craftsman that are well known in their venues and some just starting out. Some of their works have been premiered in TV, stage and movies on a regular basis.
Specializing in Medieval, Goth , Stage Film, BDFSM and Practitioner.
Patchwork Merchant Mercenaries a Dept of, Ask For IT was started by artists and former military veterans, and sword fighters, representing over 100 artisans, one who made his living traveling from fair to festival vending medieval wares. The majority of his customers are re-enactors, SCAdians and the like, looking to build their kit with period clothing, feast gear, adornments, etc.
Likewise, it is typical for these history-lovers to peruse the tent (aka mobile store front) and, upon finding something that pleases the eye, ask "Is this period?"
A deceitful query!! This is not a yes or no question. One must have a damn good understanding of European history (at least) from the fall of Rome to the mid-1600's to properly answer. Taking into account, also, the culture in which the querent is dressed is vitally important. You see, though it may be well within medieval period, it would be strange to see a Viking wearing a Caftan...or is it?
After a festival's time of answering weighty questions such as these, I'd sleep like a log! Only a mad man could possibly remember the place and time for each piece of kitchen ware, weaponry, cloth, and chain within a span of 1,000 years!! Surely there must be an easier way, a place where he could post all this knowledge...
Traveling Within The World is meant to be such a place. A place for all of these artists to keep in touch and directly interact with their fellow geeks and re-enactment hobbyists, their clientele.
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